Sometimes, you reach a point in life when you think about what really matters to you...like is being complacent bad? up to how high is high?
A lot of people believe that if you want something really bad, then the universe will conspire to give it to you. What if you don't want anything at all?
What fun is it wanting something something to happen, only to get tired of it after getting it?
There is also a saying that goes, "be careful what you wish for, you might get it..."
I know someone whose parents were millionaires, but gave up all their wealth, even their children to a religious church bordering on being a "cult".
I somehow understand them. Simplicity in life, means unloading all burdens, responsibility and even happiness.
But, still, when you commit to marriage, you commit to having children. The children are their parents' responsibility.
I know I want to raise my own children in the future. They are a source of responsibility but also a source of happiness. I think that having children will make you selfless and you would be more passionate about life, work, health and money because you want to provide for them.
I was a child, but I have not yet experienced being a mother. I guess when that time comes, it would force me to grow up.
For now, I'll enjoy everything that's happening to my life now. I know there's that biological clock for women, but it's not my time yet.